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Back in the day, a cheater had to be very careful about making contact with his or her secret lover.
From whispered conversations on the kitchen phone to quick trips to the gas station where he could use the payphone, a cheater had to be a lot sneakier.
Today, with the advances in digital communications, it is a lot easier to make a cellphone call from anywhere, shoot an email or text message, leaving the cheater’s true partner almost completely in the dark.
One thing that never changes, though, is that cheaters always leave signs. How can you tell if your spouse is communicating with a secret lover? Here are a few ideas.
1. Computer usage. If your spouse is suddenly and unexplainably spending more time online, especially late at night, early in the morning, or other times when you are not around, that could be an indication she is trying to hide something.
Depending on how sophisticated she is, you may be able to simply check your browser history to see where she has been. Many people may know to delete that, but there are programs you can install that will monitor and record every keystroke on a given computer. These are impossible for even advanced computer users to detect.
2. Cell phone usage. If your partner is keeping a closer eye on the cell phone than in the past, he may be trying to stop you from checking his call logs. If you can get a hold of the thing, and the records haven’t been deleted, you can see who he has been calling and how long they have talked. Check address books as well.
3. Never forget the old fashioned cheating detection methods. Quick hangups, either on land lines or cell phones, suddenly changing what he or she is doing when you walk in the room, etc.
Check land line phone records for calls you don’t recognize. If you see calls to a secret lover on there, not only are you with a cheater, you’re with a moron!
Always be aware of what he or she is doing (and try to be aware in a non-stalker kind of way) and trust your instincts. If you think you may be dealing with infidelity, gather some facts before you confront.
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Guest author Sydney Guishard provides these additional signs of cheating:
58 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair
By Sydney Guishard
1) He just got a new cell phone but surprisingly the bill gets sent to his office address.
2) Your partner suddenly starts taking more business trips that last longer.
3) He no longer wants the baby seat in his car.
4) You can’t get your spouse to talk to you anymore.
5) Sex life? You hardly have sex any more.
6) Wow! Your sex life has suddenly taken off.
7) Your partner is paying way too much attention to you.
Your partner is ignoring you.
9) Your spouse is neglecting everyday chores and tasks.
10) He starts paying a lot of attention to a clean car. Everything is spotless inside and out.
11) You find you have to readjust the passenger seat every time you get in the car.
12) She seems to be working late at the office more than usual.
13) He has condoms even though you’re on the birth control pill. She takes the pill even though you’ve had a vasectomy.
14) She just got a new male friend but she says not to worry because he’s gay or recently engaged.
15) Your partner is always running late.
16) When your partner comes home his hair is wet.
17) She always seems to be forgetting to wear her wedding ring.
18) He has suddenly taken up jogging when he normally only runs to the fridge.
19) You start smelling alcohol on her breath even though she came “straight home from work”.
20) Your Spidey senses are tingling. You just get the feeling that something is going on with your spouse. Your intuition or gut feeling is talking to you.
21) He starts to buy new clothes and starts looking REALLY, REALLY good.
22) She gets a new email address and doesn’t tell you about it.
23) She races you to the mail box to get the phone bill first.
24) You notice charges on your credit card statement that make no sense.
25) Your spouse seems more secretive. They are definitely hiding something.
26) You can’t get your partner to fight anymore even when you try really hard to make him or her mad.
27) Your partner doesn’t want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
28) He/She goes to another room to make private phone calls.
29) Your partner’s friends seem to be uncomfortable around you — like they know something.
30) You start getting an unusual number of telephone hang-ups.
31) Your partner encourages you to take a vacation alone.
32) Your spouse starts getting defensive when you ask if something is going on.
33) Your partner starts wearing new cologne or perfume.
34) You notice lipstick on his collar, or worse – his underwear!
35) She deletes the phone log on her cell phone at least 5 times a day.
36) He turns off his cell phone when you are together like he’s afraid to take a call beside you.
37) She becomes paranoid and uncomfortable even when you ask the most innocent questions.
38) Your partner spends many hours on the computer or phone after you’ve gone to bed.
39) He makes a brand new CD to play in the car.
40) Your partner has set up special security on the computer that you can’t access.
41) The internet browser history is deleted whenever you go to use a shared computer.
42) Your partner is spending less and less time with you.
43) She never seems to be at her desk when you call.
44) Use your nose. Your partner smells differently when they leave the house in the morning compared to when they come home in the evening. A different cologne or soap smell.
45) Your spouse suddenly becomes interested in new, different types of music.
46) Your partner starts talking differently, using different phrases and sayings and knowing more on a new subject.
47) Your spouse has unusual scratches or bruises on their neck, back or arms and you know the cat’s not responsible.
48) Your partner has his/her cell phone locked down better than Fort Knox.
49) He never returns your calls when he’s out.
50) She has more of a “glow” about her.
51) Your spouse’s underwear never makes it to the laundry or it appears to be rinsed before getting to the laundry hamper.
52) He heads to the shower or brushes his teeth as soon as he walks in the door.
53) He starts buying new underwear.
54) She buys new underwear and always wears matching bras and panties.
55) He starts doing his own laundry.
56) Your spouse starts receiving small unexplained gifts.
57) She tells you she’s trying a Brazilian wax.
58) He learns how to remove hair. He now clips his nose hairs, trims his pubic hair and tweezes the hair growing out of his ears.
Sydney Guishard is a Relationship coach and has helped hundreds of couples improve their marriage. Is your marriage headed to divorce? Find additional tips here at http://www.marriagepassion.com
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